The Rantings of a Stunned Soul





Why do we love ?why do we choose the person we love to love ?why does it seen like its ok even if our choices seem terribly unconventional?Why do we make our love the centre of our world ?Why do we make the choices we do?without a dint of guilt ?without a single doubt ?

 why do we forget our conventions and get shocked when we are placed in a difficult point When the love that we considered immortal seems to be not so ?when the tests never end ,when you love and yet you hate ,when you don't know what to do?do you love some more or do you just let go?do you admit failing and run away knowing fully well you don't have anywhere to go ?
DO you surrender?what can you do?what would you do?

Why does your heart unknowingly shatter when relationships of the romantic nature that you thought would last forever end in breakups ?or is it just me???

Why do we take a chance when you know there is a 70% chance it'll end in a anticlimax?Why do we take that chance when statistics say otherwise?is it out of hope that the love we have is special ,and will be special,is it the person we are with?
what is it that makes these love affairs work?why do some work while others don't?is there a way to know ahead of time ?Why do we leave our brains half the time and talk with our heart ?why are we so stupid?

why is the struggle to find our better half so elusive ?why does it paint an excessively pretty picture ?why do we wish to fall in love when were not and wish that we weren't when we are... why are we so confused?Why do we struggle so much everyday and stand in relationships where we must struggle?why?why oh why?
why do we put our lives on the line by our own will?

Perhaps this is a subconscious address to my friends who are single and wonder "would things change if you are not?"I will tell you this if love happens to you organically accept it ,else wait till it happens never force it .

For my friends who have just had a break up ,you will find love again you may not know it now but you will even if you don't you will learn to love yourself.you may want to destroy yourself and everything around but there's no point in it .Believe in the beauty of life ,it is real ,much more real than the sadness of your heart ache .Find love helping others .Work towards being remembered .after all you're breakup was just a page in a large book .There are many more pages left to be written.
Find yourself ,understand what you love and what you don't .
Never feel alone cause there are infinite people in this world who need your help .
You cannot afford to be depressed ,sad or miserable .That is just not you.
Aim at being a noble prize winner for the literature of life.


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